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Setting Boundaries in Running and Life: Why Prioritizing Yourself is Okay

How Letting Go of Social Pressure Can Eventually Improve Your Happiness and Mental Well-Being

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Wilko van de Kamp
Mar 21, 2025
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They say having a few enemies means you stood for something. While that might sound extreme, the truth is that conflict—whether in friendships, politics, or even within ourselves—can be a sign of growth. We see it everywhere: mainstream media thrives on division, and even nations unite when faced with a common challenge. But when it comes to personal relationships, particularly in running and social circles, learning to set boundaries is essential for well-being.

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