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How Do You Live Your Best Life When You’re Stuck In A Rut?

How Do You Live Your Best Life When You’re Stuck In A Rut?

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Wilko van de Kamp
Jan 14, 2022
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How Do You Live Your Best Life When You’re Stuck In A Rut?
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Rainy day traffic on Brooklyn Bridge.

Life can feel like New York traffic sometimes. It sounds exciting but it isn’t really moving at times. Are you stuck in a rut and unsure how to make changes in your life? Your thoughts, your feelings, what you focus on have all created your reality. How do you like the person you have become so far? What’s the quality of life you have created for yourself? How would you rate it on a scale from one to ten?

Be Real With Yourself

Without judgment, take a look at what you have created. Just accept it for what it is. Is it in alignment with your goals? Did you roll into it by default, guided by other people? No matter where you are today, you can choose to take responsibility for your life. You can start with one area of your life. Something you want to work on and see different results in. You, and only you, are responsible for your present level of success in life.

It can be your relationship, your career, your health, your finances or anything else. You decide what you want to focus on. Yo…

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